Wedding Planning System That Will Save You Thousands!

The key to planning your dream wedding is this ground-breaking system that uncovers the secrets to planning the wedding of your dreams all while saving hundreds of hours, thousands of dollars
and more importantly, your sanity!

The Ultimate Bridal Survivor Wedding Planning Guide

 

"The advice in this guide saved me at least $3,500!  It was worth every penny."
~ Melanie Trueblood

"This guide helped to keep my sanity when helping my daughter plan her wedding.  And we didn’t go broke!
"
~ Janine Ravas

"A Bride's dream-come true!  I am so glad I had this book, it put everything in perspective for me and kept me extremely organized.
"
~ Brittany Renbarger

 

 

Why Should You Listen to Me?

 

Crista Tharp with her family

I have been an event planner specializing in weddings for over 10 years.  I am an author of 5 books, a newspaper columnist, a regular contributor to www.WedPlan101.com, and I speak all over the country on my creative method of wedding planning.

I planned my own wedding and did it on a budget.  I am just like you – but I know the techniques and tips you need to survive this process and I want to share them with you.

The internet is full of books written by Brides who love to scare you into thinking that all wedding vendors are out to scam you and rip you off.  That is simply not true!

In fact, most Brides are taken advantage of because they didn’t do their homework.

You CAN plan your own wedding, plan it just as well as a professional and save THOUSANDS of dollars in the process!

 

 

"When I began I was very overwhelmed and I had no idea where to even start and who to trust.  When I received The UBSWG I immediately felt at ease looking over all the tools that it included. It was first hand advice from an expert I could trust - who has seen, heard, and done it all when it comes to a large event.  This planner is a "DIY” way for me to put everything together and organize my thoughts, ideas, and paperwork.  From the worksheets, checklists, and quote templates to the current trends, traditions, and sensitive family issues - I knew that I would have every step covered and that put my mind at ease.

I want to thank Crista for the "Ultimate Wedding Planner" and give her the full credit for making my planning experience the most enjoyable yet of any event I have ever done.  I have truly enjoyed every minute of the wedding planning experience and I look forward to many more memories to come."

~ Amanda Ulmer

 

WHY MOST PLANNING BOOKS DON’T WORK…

Old timelines don’t work anymore. And most of the information you get out of those Bridal magazines is down-right WRONG!  Brides don’t want to spend hours scouring the internet for bits and pieces of the right information and sorting out what isn’t overt advertisements.


If you go to a book store and pick up any of the hundreds of books they have on wedding planning available, I will bet you good money that 99% of them were written AT LEAST 10 years ago, and if not, EVEN LONGER.  Trends, etiquette and issues change by the minute these days. Books written 5, 10, and 20 years ago are only going to cause you problems and cost you MORE MONEY.

 

WHY THIS GUIDE IS DIFFERENT…

You don’t have to be a professional to do it – just use the tricks of the trade – all of which are included in this SYSTEM.

This guide features The Bliss Method ™, a 4 phase system that guides a Bride step-by step through the planning, delegation, and execution of her wedding day. This method is shockingly simple and is spreading like wildfire through the wedding industry – of which I am extremely proud.

 

IF YOU USE MY METHOD, YOUR WILL LEARN …

  • How to have that first meeting with your parents without discomfort (a template is provided)
  • Today’s traditional break-down of expenses
  • The role of families
  • How to deal with an over-bearing Mother-In-Law
  • The best ways to incorporate children and step-parents into the ceremony
  • The complete list of responsibilities for every member of your Bridal Party
  • How to deal with out-of-town guests and getting the best rates for room blocks
  • The  three rules of Bridal Survival
  • The Bliss Method ™  (a comprehensive checklist for each phase is provided)
  • The way professional planners create the agendas for the rehearsal, ceremony and reception (templates are included)
  • Options for the flow of your wedding day (everything from location and timing to seating and toasts
  • Everything you need to know about vendors.  Every question you should ask (template included), How to work with them, who you tip and who you don’t, deposits and final payment arrangements as well as comprehensive quote templates for each category.
  • How to choose the best rentals
  • Creative ideas for accessories, favors and Bridal Party gifts
  • Out-of the-box suggestions and complete directions for your invitations
  • How to plan the perfect Honeymoon (template included)
  • What you need to know about ordering your wedding gown, the Bridesmaids dresses and tuxedos
  • What you need to know to prepare for your marriage
  • Important wedding abbreviations and terms
  • And so much more!

This guide is over 70 pages long with over 80 sample forms, checklists, and quote templates!
You Will NOT Find Anything This Comprehensive Anywhere Else!

 

Just listen to what my clients are saying:

 

This Is a MUST-READ for Every Bride-to-be!
"During my 25 years in the wedding industry I have seen many trends come and go, unfortunately, most outlived their usefulness long ago. The UBSWG is an inventive new look at wedding planning.  It is realistic and in touch with the issues and concerns of a modern Bride.

~ Jeff Hodson – Publisher-www.WedPlan101.com   

The UBSWG Was a Lifesaver!

“Thank you so much for this fabulous planner.  When I received it I couldn’t believe how much information was packed into it!  Since I couldn’t afford a wedding planner I was sure that I would forget something but I didn’t.  It was the perfect day I always dreamed of.”

~ Megan Gentry

 

TABLE OF CONTENTS

Title   Page
Before You Begin   6
     
 First Things First   9
          Permission or Blessing?   9
          Communication with Your Parents   10
                    Initial Meeting with Couple and Parents (sample form)   10
          Today’s Traditional Breakdown of Expenses   11
          Tradition Goes Down the Drain   14
          The Role of the Families   15
          Mother-In-Laws, Step-Parents, and Kids   16
          The Bridal Party   21
               The Groom   21
               Your Attendants   23 
               Maid of Honor   24
               Best Man   25
               Groomsmen   26
               Bridesmaids   26
               Ring Bearer   27
               Flower Girl   27
               Ushers   27
          Out-of-Town Guests   27 
               Room Blocks    28 
               Transportation   28 
               Gifts and Information   28
                    Hotel Block Quote Form (sample form)   28
               Should You Hire a Wedding Coordinator   29
                    Wedding Planner Quote Form (sample form)   30
     
The Planning   31
          The Three Rules of Bridal Survival   31
          How to Plan the Wedding:  The Bliss Method   32
               Phase 1:  “Pure Bliss"   33
                    The Bliss Method, Phase 1:  “Pure Bliss” (sample form)   33
               Phase 2:  “Overwhelming Bliss"   33
                    Phase 2: "Overwhelming Bliss" (sample form)   33
               Phase 3:  “Express Your Bliss"   35
                    Phase 3:  “Express Your Bliss” (sample form)   35
               Phase 4:  “Countdown to Bliss"   36
                    Phase 4:  “Countdown to Bliss” (sample form)   36
     
The Flow of “Wedding Day”   38
          Location   38
          Timing   38
          The Ceremony   38
               Ceremony Agenda Worksheet (sample form)   39
          After the Ceremony   39
          Reception Seating   39
          The Reception Agenda   39
               Reception Agenda Worksheet (sample form)   40
          Toasts   41
          The Master of Ceremonies   41
          After the Reception   41
     
Vendors   42
          The Typical Cost of a Wedding   42 
          How to Work with Vendors   46
          Vendor Deposits and Final Payments   48
                    Vendor Contact Information (sample form)   49
          Who You Tip and Who You Don’t   49
          The Ceremony Site   50
                    Church Quote Form (sample form)   51
          The Reception Site   51
                    Reception Site Quote Form (sample form)   53
                    Reception Site with Catering Quote Form (sample form)   53
          The Caterer   53
                    Caterer Quote Form (sample form)   54
          Alcohol   54
                     Alcohol Vendor Quote Form (sample form)   55
          Disc Jockey or Live Band   55
                    Disc Jockey Quote Form (sample form)   56
                    Live Band/Entertainment Quote Form (sample form)   56
          Photography   56 
                    Photography Quote Form (sample form)   57
          Videography   57
                   Videography Quote Form (sample form)   58
          The Cake   58
                   Cake Quote Form (sample form)   58
          Flowers   59
                    Flower Checklist (sample form)   60
                    Florist Quote Form (sample form)   60
          Decorations   60
                    Decorator Quote Form (sample form)   61
          Musicians   61
                    Musician Quote Form (sample form)   64
          Transportation   64
                    Transportation Quote Form (sample form)   65
          Rentals   65
                    Rentals Checklist (sample form)   65
          Invitations   66
                    Invitations Worksheet (sample form)   71
          Favors   72 
          Accessories   72 
          The Honeymoon   73 
                    Honeymoon Worksheet (sample form)   74 
          Your Bridal Gown and Accessories   74 
          The Bridesmaids’ Dresses   76
          Your Tuxedos   77
                    Tuxedos 101   77
                    How to Rent a Tuxedo   78
                    Tuxedo FAQ’s   79
     
Your Marriage   81
     
Wedding Abbreviations AND TERMS   82
     
Final Advice   88

 

I have packed “The Ultimate Bridal Survivor ™ Wedding Guide” with a wealth of information unrivaled by ANY wedding book on the market because my goal is to provide you a system that makes your wedding planning as easy and as fun as possible.  If I succeed in my goal then you and everyone in your family is happy and your wedding day is nothing but blissful and THAT is how you start a marriage. 

SERIOUSLY!

Just to make sure you realize that I really want to help you, I have added the following bonuses that will ensure you will have EVERY tool you need to plan a wedding that you will never forget! In addition to “The Ultimate Bridal Survivor ™ Wedding Guide”, I have written companion guides for the Groom, Best Man, Maid of Honor, and Both sets of Parents. I am including all five (two copies for each set of parents) of these guides FREE!

 

BONUS #1

The Groom’s Bridal Survivor ™ Wedding Guide

...tells your love EXACTLY what is expected of him, and his Best Man; includes details on his tuxes, the honeymoon, the marriage license and even has wedding terms and abbreviations he needs to know.  Not only that, but the guide is complete with notes for his toast, his “To Do” list and “Day Of” checklist.

The Groom's Guide

 

BONUS #2 

The Best Man’s Bridal Survivor ™ Wedding Guide

....was written so the Best Man knows everything he is supposed to do to help your Groom out during the planning process and the day of the wedding.  If you are afraid he thinks his job is only to get your love the night before and decorate your get-away car: this is the book for him and it is totally free!

 

The Best Man's Guide

 

BONUS #3 

The Maid of Honor’s Bridal Survivor ™ Wedding Guide

...is filled with tips on how to assist the Bride without going crazy, secrets on how to manage the wedding party like a pro, the MOH’s duties and financial responsibilities and everything in-between (including checklists & notes!)  A girl can’t go wrong with this in her corner!

The Maid of Honor's Guide

 

BONUS #4

The Parents’ Bridal Survivor ™ Wedding Guide

...is overflowing with information you can’t find anywhere else!  Learn today’s breakdown of expenses, who you tip and you don’t, the role of families, the typical cost of a wedding, the flow of a wedding, how to plan a wedding,  vendor deposits and final payments, how to put on a rehearsal dinner, and so much more!

The Parent's Guide

 

The small guides are amazing!
“I have to say, the little books for the Groom and Best Man where great.  They really didn’t know what they were doing.  And the one for the parents was great because they BOTH saw what they were supposed to do without me having to tell them.  I loved that!”

~ Tricia Jones
 

I LOVED how the guide helped keep me organized!  “The Bliss Method ™ kept me on track and doing things in an order that made sense. The worksheets helped me figure out what I needed/wanted during the planning process. The Quote templates were amazing - they helped me ask ALL the right questions when meeting with vendors!!!"

~ Nichole Westrom

Finally, Someone Uses Common Sense!
Thank you for your refreshing honesty.  I didn’t have time to waste on a book full of stuff about wedding dress styles and how to buy the perfect ring.  You wrote exactly what a Bride needs to know (sometimes things they don’t really want to hear) in a humorous and entertaining way.  I have never seen separate books for the Bridal Party either.  That was a great idea!

~ Tina Young

 

Obviously, if you were to hire a wedding planner it would cost you upwards of $2,000 or more. I wrote this guide so you could be your own planner and save money as well.  I am NOT going to take advantage of you and I refuse to overprice what I have been blessed with to share. Since I know that every Bride is different, I am offering two different options to choose from:

  1. You can purchase the E-Book option and create your own binder/scrapbook to put it in;
  2. OR for just $20 more you can receive the E-Book AND the official 3-ringed hardback organizer with the UBSWG already inserted along with the pre-printed tabs and all of the forms and checklists printed out.  It is your choice – your personality – your wedding!

The “The Ultimate Bridal Survivor ™ Wedding Guide” PLUS the bonuses are worth more than $99.  HOWEVER, I am now offering it at $39.99 to celebrate the unbelievable success of the second edition!

BUT WAIT!!!

I’m am so sure you’ll love every word of it that I am offering a 30 day 100% money back no risk guarantee!  If for any reason you are not 100% satisfied, just send me an email and I will refund every penny – no questions asked.

 

Still unsure?

Let me ask you just a few more questions……

  • Are you busy? 
  • Are you tired?
  • If you don’t buy this system, how do you plan on proceeding? 
  • Do you really think you will find a better way for less than a good pair of shoes? PLUS a 100% guarantee? 
  • Can you really afford NOT to buy this system?
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    In less than 10 minutes you could be on your way to planning your dream wedding and saving precious dollars!  You will be downloading and reading the ebook and incredible bonuses within just a few minutes... and using it to create the wedding of your dreams!

     

    Eventfully, Crista Tharp

     

    P.S. I know it’s hard to take my word for it.  Take a look at my website and get to know me a bit more before you order. I’d be more than happy to answer any questions you may have! Contact me

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